nisam sigurna da je, u zdravoj dozi...da tako kazem, lose
biti samokritican - recimo nas drugar sa preko 25 god otisao i stavio fiksnu protezu, da bi ispravio zube...
smetalo mu i prakticno i estetski...
ja, do tad u zivotu nisam vjezbala, prosle sam godine pocela vozit bajs - zakljucila sam da mi smeta ono kilograma sto se nakupilo tokom godina, da dijete nisu za mene i probala sam naci ono sto mi odgovara - uspjela sam + sam otkrila nestom u cemu stvarno uzivam, mentalno i fizicki...u kontekstu fizickog rezultate vidim tek ove godine...
po meni. radiit na sebi je ok
juriti perfekciju - do te mjere da si izmjenis licni opis estetskim korekcijama i/ili izgladnjivanjem defintivno jeste nezdravo
prica mi drugarica, koja se tim bavi, kako oni cesto angazuju psihologe da pricaju s pacijentima koji se neprestano vracaju - po jos jedan, pa jos jedan zahvat...i kaze da se danas ljudi za korekcije, ponekad i nepotrebne, odlucuju sve mladji...moje pitanje je bilo - zasto opce pristaju da rade drugi, treci zahvat...
ovdje vec dolazimo na tu pricu o - nevoljenosti...neprihvatanju sebe...ali i na cinjenicu da to mediji itekako potpiruju
medijska slika lijepih ljudskih bica ima sve manje veze sa realnim ljudskim bicima - onim koja cine vecinu ljudskog roda
kad dijete od malena izlozis takvim uticajima kasnije mu je vrlo tesko pomoci da promijeni stav i prihvati i zavoli sebe onakvo kakvo jeste...da vidi lepotu van te nametnute norme...i to zna bas potrajat...neki to nauce s godinama, neki nikad...cinjenica je da nam mediji, kao komponenta kulture...nemogu to sadbolhe formulirat, u najvecoj mjeri bas odmazu...
citiracu dalje nesto, na engleskom je
mozete pomocu google translejta prevesti ako nekog zanima, a ne snalazi se...
prvi clanak i link se odnose na problem prihvatanja vlastitog tijela
podaci su americki, ali mislim da je problem svuda isti...mozda postoci variraju
Body image refers to the way we perceive our own bodies and the way we assume other people perceive us. “Body image involves our perception, imagination, emotions, and physical sensations of and about our bodies. It’s not static, but ever-changing; sensitive to changes in mood, environment, and physical experience. It is not based on fact. It is psychological in nature, and much more influenced by self-esteem than by actual physical attractiveness as judged by others. It is not inborn, but learned. This learning occurs in the family and among peers, but these only reinforce what is learned and expected culturally.” [Lightstone, 1991]
Some facts about body image:
The average size of the idealized woman (as portrayed by models), has stabilized at 13-19% below healthy weight. [Garner et al., 1980]
The thin ideal is unachievable for most women and is likely to lead to feelings of self-devaluation, dysphoria (depression), and helplessness. [Rodin et al., 1984]
89% of women in a study of 3,452 women wanted to lose weight. [Garner, 1997]
Constant dieting and the relentless pursuit of thinness has become a normative (thought to be normal) behavior among women in Western society. [Rodin et al., 1984]
Thinness has not only come to represent attractiveness, but also has come to symbolize success, self-control, and higher socioeconomic status. [Forehand, 2001]
The weight-loss industry brings in at least $55.4 billion in revenue per year. [Marketdata Enterprises 2007]
A disturbed body image is a significant component of eating disorders and plays an important role in the development and continuation of eating disorders. [Stice 2002]
http://www.about-face.org/educate-yourself/get-the-facts/facts-on-body-image/#.UgjHrssayK0
drugo je lista kampanja radjenih kako bi se medijska slika vratila u...zdravije tokove
In an effort to become ambassadors for the message of healthy body image, Voguerecently announced that it would no longer feature models under age 16 or those who appear to have an eating disorder.
Fashion organizations in Spain and Italy have specified a minimum healthy body mass index for models.
Israel’s government recently passed a law that requires a healthy body mass index for models as well as full disclosure if fashion media and advertising use Photoshop to change a model’s figure.
Dove has been leading “real beauty” empowerment campaigns and taking a stand against Photoshopping for almost a decade.
In 2002, actress Jamie Lee Curtis posed for a magazine both “glammed up” and in “real life” fashion to bring awareness to the way media images are digitally altered.
Social media websites such as Facebook, Tumblr and Pinterest are increasingly banning pro-anorexia and pro-bulimia messages. At the same time, there are a growing number of websites dedicated to healthy portrayals of real women, including the I Am That Girl blog.
In spite of these trailblazing changes, a lot of progress has yet to be made. The majority of magazines and other media have not replaced unrealistic images with normal, average-sized people. Although awareness is growing, parents and other authority figures can do more to model healthy self-image and diet, limit exposure to media, openly talk about media messages and share daily family meals. What we need is a broad-scale cultural shift that will only come about when we start demanding it.
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/06/02/why-do-women-hate-their-bodies/
ono sto je jasno jeste da nacin na koji vidimo sebe i stupanj zadovoljstva uticu
I na sve ostale aspekte naseg zivota
rekla je jucer jedna forumasica, u najboljoj namjeri, da malim djevojcicama treba govoriti da su pametne, a ne da su lijepe...
ja mislim da im treba govoriti i da su lijepe, ali im treba i objasniti sta ih cini lijepim : )
A nisam, stvarno. 
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