Nevinost

[Molonlabe]

Hvala Bogu ima dosta ovakvih budala pa pametni mogu da nadju ono sta treba.

Баш тако. А и генерално то није лоше, да нема таквих ко би оженио профукњаче?

 

[Manifold]

Баш тако. А и генерално то није лоше, да нема таквих ко би оженио профукњаче?

Hvala bogu pa ima takvih kao vi, pa mi ostali mozemo da nadjemo dobru devojku...

Vidis, interesantna je ova pojava da kada zena/devojka ima dosta seksualnih partnera po mnogima je *****, dok je muskarac faca.

Evo jednog citata, na engleskom, mrzi me da prevodim, tu lezi problem...

We have a language problem. It’s a word faced by women everywhere. It’s a word that denies happily promiscuous women any satisfaction, and it can be used to degrade anyone who derives pleasure from sexual activity. It can even just be used as a gendered insult when a more creative word can’t be found. And perhaps most strangely of all, many of us have adopted this word as a term of endearment for our friends.

What’s this dangerous word, you may ask? The word is SLUT.

In order to get a better handle on the definition, I consulted two of the most “reliable” sources of definitions in America today: Merriam-Webster and Urban Dictionary. According to the often slang-free M-W, a slut is a “promiscuous woman, especially a prostitute.” Urban D is more blunt, calling a slut “a girl who will ****/suck anyone because she has no self-esteem” or “a girl who’s fucked so many guys she can’t close her legs anymore.” According to my always wise high-school brother, slut is an “insulting term for a female who uses her body and sex to get attention.”

Do any of these sound like positive definitions? I think not.

I want to talk about the problem with sluts, a problem that starts with the absence of a male equivalent and ends with issues of self-esteem and sexual self-realization.

Our first problem: there is no guy version of a slut. Sure, words like manwhore and gigolo are occasionally thrown around, and guys are also called sluts and skanks with some regularity. But what do these all really translate to for men? Most of the time, guys are called these things to recognize their sexual prowess and experience. That same brother of mine, when asked what manwhore meant, said that “it’s still insulting, you know, from a guy’s perspective, but it’s different. Unlike with slut, it doesn’t mean you’re a lower member of society, it just means you’re kind of a douchebag about it.” Guy who sleep around don’t get called out for being impure, unclean, or lacking self-respect. Guys who sleep around aren’t really sluts—they’re studs.

Our second problem: women who have sex outside of relationships aren’t necessarily doing it for attention or because of low self-esteem, but the “slut paradigm” makes this stereotype hard to escape. There is no positive word for a woman who enjoys casual sexual experiences. This is a massive problem. By criminalizing female sexuality, we’re creating a world in which men have a distinct, powerful advantage, and a world in which lowering a woman’s self-esteem by calling her a slut can be used as a power play to get sex.

What can we do? Let’s stop casually calling our friends sluts. Let’s stop judging women who are in charge of their sexuality. And let’s try to equalize the playing field. If you hear someone use the word slut, try to remember that even if they don’t necessarily mean to be insulting, they’re utilizing a term that, in its essence, is built to keep women down. After all, the problem with sluts can only be solved one word at a time.

 

[ublehas]

Hvala bogu pa ima takvih kao vi, pa mi ostali mozemo da nadjemo dobru devojku...

Vidis, interesantna je ova pojava da kada zena/devojka ima dosta seksualnih partnera po mnogima je *****, dok je muskarac faca.

Evo jednog citata, na engleskom, mrzi me da prevodim, tu lezi problem...

Pitanje je ponasanja i prihvatanja takvog ponasanja. Terminologija nije ubacena s neba vec je stvaraju ljudi zavisno od svog odnosa prema datoj situaciji. Ona je odraz necega, odraz takvih zena u muskim ocima..

 

[Dionys]

Ja mislim kad se seks postavi kao najvisi cilj u drustvu da tad nema vise ljudi. A to je danas svuda pravilo.

Prema tome, bilo bi najbrze rjesenje kolektivno samoubistvo.

 

[daxt]

Ja mislim kad se seks postavi kao najvisi cilj u drustvu da tad nema vise ljudi. A to je danas svuda pravilo.

Prema tome, bilo bi najbrze rjesenje kolektivno samoubistvo.

masovni blud i razvrat je obicno dolazio pred propast neke imperije ili drzave, ljudi postanu moralne nakaze,zene se pokvare a sa njima i muskarci, i jednostavno nacija se urusi iznutra,mene srbija podseca na vizantiju, tako ce i da nestane.

 

[MrNapokon]

Ja se cesto zesce smejem, kada se kaze da muskarac drzi moc u sexualnoj ravnotezi. To mi tako pateticno zvuci, i evo jedan odgovor na to

, i ne postoji rec slut za muskarca, ali zato postoje: Male pig, male chauvinistic moron, male horny looser, stupid man, sexually frustrated looser chump, cheep man, man think with their penis, cock head, looser, looser (what game are you playing if you are loosing, by the way, or should you play a game anyway?), a guy that no woman wants so he is pathetic, etc....

 

[Ganfajter]

ja ne ***** ujednaceno a nekad i ritmicki nepravilno, sta sam u podznaku ?

 

[MrNapokon]

skakavac.

 

[Dionys]

masovni blud i razvrat je obicno dolazio pred propast neke imperije ili drzave, ljudi postanu moralne nakaze,zene se pokvare a sa njima i muskarci, i jednostavno nacija se urusi iznutra,mene srbija podseca na vizantiju, tako ce i da nestane.

Problem je sto prvo propadnu oni najbolji pojedinci, pa onda obicni narod pada u ropstvo boljih naroda. Ali i to samo ako taj bolji narod ima vodje koji ce da porobljuju propale narode.

Dakle, bez vladarskog sloja ostaje blud i razvrat kao nerjesivi problem.

U 19. vijeku su se nade polagale u Rusiju, tj. da bi mogla da zavlada dekadentnom Evropom, ali sad ni oni vise nemaju vladarski sloj, a sami sumnjam da bi bili u stanju silom da odstrane dekadenciju i da joj se nametnu.

 

[*Mihal*]

Evo hiljadita tema o nevinosti....
Nego, muškarci otkud vama ideja da devojka treba da se čuva za vas dok vi možete da hebete sa strane? Je l' miliste da imate prava na to i na čemu se to vaše mišljenje zasniva?

Ma otkud vam takva ideja, uzdrzane devjke jesu zanimljive no jedino maminim sinovima, sa kojima bas i ne postoji neka svetla buducnost za vas,
samo vi otvorite nama, i srce i dushicu i sve ostalo ... naravno, cim napunite 18