As things become less accessible, we lose freedoms – respond to loss of freedoms by wanting to have them more than before
Just telling someone that they should not do something makes it more desirable
If something is not scarce, then it is not desired or valued that much. Praises from a teacher who seldom praises are valued more than praises from a teacher who is liberal with his or her praise
“Easy things nobody wants, but what is forbidden is tempting.” ~ Ovid
Even a minor difference toward being "harder to get" can make a major difference in how your man responds to you
Humans love a feeling of accomplishment. We love to work for something valuable and finally obtain it.
We tend to scorn what is handed to us too easily.
We rarely appreciate things which come too easily. We value the things which are elusive - harder to reach, harder to find, harder to get.