Situationship

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Ovo je forma veze koju prihvataju ljudi koji su se zasitili nečeg. Ne uvek, ali često. To me podseća na one proračune 'sazrelih' individua, kad više ne mogu silovito i fatalistički da se zaljube, pa onda sve mere triput i sve analiziraju - porodicu tog nekog, stepen zrelosti, eventualnu budućnost sa decom... to je odraz stagnacije duha, ali može da bude i odraz slobode duha - ako su dvoje slobodni duhovi npr., pa hoće da probaju nešto novo, pa udju u ovakav tip veze gde sve spontano ide i traje dok traje. Inače prvi put čujem za ovu reč - situationship.
Kasper i Nevesta.
 

What Is a 'Situationship?' And 10 Signs You're in One​


https://www.instyle.com/lifestyle/hump-day/what-is-a-situationship

DEAR DR. JENN,
I have been hanging out with this guy I really like for about six months. We see each other fairly regularly, but it's mostly a Netflix and chill kind of thing — rarely do we go on real dates or hang out with other people, but it isn't just about sex. We have fun together, and I can see myself seriously settling down with him, but it just doesn't seem to be moving forward. I don't want to force the DTR talk, but I'm not sure what else to do. — Neither Here Nor There

DEAR NEITHER HERE NOR THERE,
It sounds like you're in the modern-day relationship purgatory known as a "situationship." This kind of definition-free relationship is becoming more common as people marry older or totally opt out of long-term commitment. This is different than "friends with benefits," where two people hook up typically at one of their homes for the sole purpose of sex, usually with minimal conversation. With a situationship, there is more connection and conversation, which can make things murky.

Sometimes, a situationship is just a transitional phase as people get to know each other before they take a step into a deeper commitment. Other times, it never moves forward and stays stuck in a situationship. Many situationships start out with the potential to become a relationship but stagnate. It could be that either one or both parties are dating the other simply out of convenience.
 

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