Zasto imate ili zelite potomstvo?
Koji su razlozi vase odluke?
Koji su razlozi vase odluke?
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Pa koji je odgovor?Boze kakvo glupo pitanje
Da.Nisam jos sigurna da li zelim da imam decu. Ljudi se sablaznjavaju kad kazes da ne zelis da imas decu.
Cesto cujem da su im deca smisao zivota. Mozda neko ne vidi smisao svog zivota pa ih nadje u deci. To je OK, svako sebi nek bira.Da.
Obicno zalepe etiketu sebicnosti i samozivosti.
Medjutim kad poslusam razloge dobijanja dece ne cujem nista sto nije, zapravo, parada sebicluka i tashtine.
Nema osude samo iskustvo mladost starosti neverujeOpet cu da kazem, OK je kad nekome deca daju smisao zivotu, ali je isto tako OK kad ljudi nadju smisao svom zivotu i bez dece i u starosti.
Stvar izbora i nijedan od ta dva izbora ne bi trebalo da naidje na osudu suprotnog tabora.
Ne želim biološko potomstvo, osim ako se baš ne desi, u ovim godinama neću abortiratiZasto imate ili zelite potomstvo?
Koji su razlozi vase odluke?
Niti je oko duzan da razume nasu odluku, niti smo mi duzni da se kome pravdamo.Po mom misljenju, ne treba generalizovati stvari...Ukoliko neko ne zeli da ima dece, ne zeli I to je njegova privatna stvar... Ukoliko neko proceni da nece roditeljske duznosti obavljati kako treba I ne oseca se kao roditelj, bolje je da nema dece...
A da li spada?Rasclanjavati poriv za roditeljstvo, koji spada u osnovne ljudske potrebe, ( u skoli smo jos ucili koje su to primarne i sekundrne potrebe) je, prema mom misljenju, bezveze.
Evo pitala sam gugl zasto se ljudi odlucuju na potomstvo:
1. They Want to Create a Family
People who were raised in a positive home environment with a stable family want to create that life with their significant other. They want to create a family that is full of joy and love where they can be affectionate towards their children. Essentially, they have placed a high priority on creating a family of their own like their parents before them.
2. To Carry on the Family Name and Values
There are plenty of people out there who want to carry on the family name and the family values. Of course, this tends to apply to the father's family name, but the point is that many prospective parents want to continue the historic family lineage. They find joy in knowing that their child will bear their last name and keep the family going. Again, this is all based around societal customs.
3. They Love Babies and Small Children
The idea of being around babies and young children might disgust some people but others love the notion of raising a little one from birth into adulthood. These people may want to relive the silly and fun parts of their childhood with their child.
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4. It's Human Nature
The simple fact of biology is that we are hardwired to procreate and pass on our genes to the next generation. This biological imperative and drive are strong in many people, who feel the need to have and raise children.
5. To Give and Receive Unconditional Love
There is a certain type of bond between parent and child that is incredibly powerful. The unconditional love that a parent has for their offspring and vice versa is a motivator for some. They want to feel those strong emotions and share those emotions with their significant other and their children.
6. To Let Their Children (Who Don't Exist Yet) Experience the Joy of Existence
The idea of bringing another human into the world and the joy of seeing that person go through life is another powerful reason why couples want to have a child. Parents want to see their child grow up and become a productive member of society.
7. To Give Meaning to Their Life
While it may seem obvious to some, having a child completely changes your life, and it gives new meaning to your life. After having a child you become responsible for their life and because of that, your existence takes on a whole new meaning.
8. To Create and Mold a Life
Many people love the idea of getting to create and raise a child, one that they can share their love with. This concept is appealing because you get to determine how your child will turn out and what values they will have. Couples can find that type of experience exciting and gratifying.
9. To Fix the Mistakes of Their Parents
Not everyone gets to grow up in a stable home environment with good parents. Many people grow up with parents who have serious flaws and so they decide that when they become parents they will not make the same mistakes.
10. Social Pressure and Expectations
There is a lot of pressure on couples to have children, and this has been ingrained in society since the very beginning of time. Their mentality is that they have to have kids just like everyone else and be just like their parents. It has become an expectation that couples have children and start families.
Ucila sam iz psihologije na faksu.A da li spada?
A ko si ti da ti meni postavljas pitanja??Cemu ovi zeleni smajliji?
Zasto ti osudjujes odluku da se ima dete i ko si ti da cekiras dobre i lose razloge?
Sa druge strane bi zelela da te okolina razume i prihvati, dok ti to isto ne dajes?
Moj post se nije odnosio ni na koga konkretno, niti ja ocekujem bilo cije pravdanje. Postom sam samo izrekla svoje misljenje da ljude koji ne zele imati dece treba razumeti isto kao I ljude kojima je jedini cilj u zivotu imati dece, sve je to okNiti je oko duzan da razume nasu odluku, niti smo mi duzni da se kome pravdamo.
Neka bude kako ko zeli. Meni je samo zao ljudi, koji zele, a ne mogu. Sto se ljudi, koji ne zele decu, tice, niti se bavim njima, niti ih ikako zigosem u svojoj glavi kojekakvim pridevima.
Zivim i pustam druge da zive.
A ko si ti da ti meni postavljas pitanja??
Moram da se umešam i kažem da ti nemaš svoje mišljenje, pošto si ga upravo po svom priznanju prekopirala sa gugla, tvoji su samo zeleni smajlići, pošto je to tvoj domet razmišljanja.
To je bas ruzno ponasanje.A ko si ti da ti meni postavljas pitanja??
Nikog ja ne "osudjujem" vec iznosim moje misljenje o razlozima za dobijanje dece. Neki razlozi su mi, kao sto rekoh cist sebicluk. Ono koji mi se svidjaju sam cekirala.