you owe me nothing in return...

I'll give you countless amounts of outright acceptance if you want it
I will give you encouragement to choose the path that you want if you need it
You can speak of anger and doubts your fears and freak outs and I'll hold it
You can share your so-called shame filled accounts of times in your life and I won't judge it
(and there are no strings attached to it)

You owe me nothing for giving the love that I give
You owe me nothing for caring the way that I have
I give you thanks for receiving it's my privilege
And you owe me nothing in return

You can ask for space for yourself and only yourself and I'll grant it
You can ask for freedom as well or time to travel and you'll have it
You can ask to live by yourself or love someone else and I'll support it
You can ask for anything you want anything at all and I'll understand it
(and there are no strings attached to it)

You owe me nothing for giving the love that I give
You owe me nothing for caring the way that I have
I give you thanks for receiving it's my privilege
And you owe me nothing in return

I bet you're wondering when the next payback shoe will eventually drop
I bet you're wondering when my conditional police will force you to cough up
I bet you wonder how far you have now danced you way back into debt
This is the only kind of love as I understand it that there really is

You can express your deepest of truths even if it means I'll lose you and I'll hear it
You can fall into the abyss on your way to your bliss I'll empathize with
You can say that you have to skip town to chase your passion and I'll hear it
You can even hit rock bottom have a mid-life crisis and I'll hold it
(and there are no strings attached)

You owe me nothing for giving the love that I give
You owe me nothing for caring the way that I have
I give you thanks for receiving it's my privilege
And you owe me nothing in return



Mislite li da je ovakva nesebicno cista ljubav uopste moguca u danasnjem iskvarenom svetu? Razumem da uvek ima izuzetaka, ali...

Mislim da jeste. I chvrsto verujem u to.
I ponosna sam shto i sama umem beskonachno i nesebichno da volim,chak i kada nishta ili premalo dobijam za uzvrat.

divno sa tvoje strane....
ja sam prokleti egoista...

Svi ljudi su sebicni po svojoj prirodi.
I ostajemo sebicni u toj meri da sve sto radimo i pruzamo pruzamo zato sto u velikoj meri to zadovoljava i nas.
Socijalizacija i vaspitanje su faktori koji nas uce da sebicluk kontrolisemo.

I nadam se da mi Gia nece zameriti sto cu reci ovo, ali na takve stvari nemas zasto biti ponosna.
Lepo je ako nisi na oko koristoljubiv, ali nije bog zna kako pohvalno ako pruzas ljubav gazeci po sebi, na konto sebe, samo zarad nekog osecaja velikodusnosti.
To si nemoj dozvoliti.
Onaj ko pruza ljubav zasluzuje ljubav.

U krajnjem slucaju

I ponosna sam shto i sama umem beskonachno i nesebichno da volim

Kliknite za proširenje...

Kljucna rec - ponosna si na sebe...osecas se dobro, ispunjava te to sto sebe na taj nacin stavljas u superioran polozaj nad onima koji nisu u stanju da to rade.
Ali to sto osecas je cisto normalna stvar..svako od nas ima nesto svoje na sta je ponosan - iz prostog razloga sto nas to u nasim ocima, i po nasim kriterijumima cini boljima od ostalih.

Znala sam da ce neko i to da kazhe... i slazhem se sa tim, chesto je to na moju shtetu ( ha,shteta i korist.... izgleda ne mozhe bez tih rechi! ali naravno, znate na shta sam mislila.. ) ali drago mi je shto sam takva... kada vidim ljude koji crpe tudju ljubav i energiju da bi sebe nahranili,a daju minimum... ipak- ne,hvala... ne vidim sebe u toj ulozi. (***,kako zvuchim mazohistichno)