TO MARRY OR NOT TO MARRY?
It seems so simple , however, many couples when beginning to live together are experiencing the largest crises in a relationship. It is not only about the couples that are together for a few months ,but also about ones together for four or five years ,sometimes even more ,and have spent countless nights in the other one’s flat. After so much time spent together one would thought that they know each other well and that they would be able to solve any problem or misunderstanding.
What makes a relationship questionable? Especially after a couple start to live together? Is it partly because we start late? We wait till late 20’s or early 30’s to make that step. And that is a part of life when we have already gained certain habits which are hard to change after that. We have learned to cope with problems without any help, and we hardly need anyone to fulfill our life, because it was fulfilled for a long time when we were living alone.
Bachelor’s life makes us less willing to compromise, less willing to risk and try new things. Even if we have finally found the person we think is right for us, lead with bad experiences we rarely open up completely , trying for as long as we can to keep our independence and we hesitate with making a decision about marriage.
Passing from part-time to full-time relationship could be easier for most couples. There is just one rule that they have to observe: THEY MUST NOT WAIT TOO LONG! Because if they do they would be less eager to please their partner and more eager to please themselves and their habits. After a certain time the level of chemicals would leasen and they would be used to each other.
All in all, it would be easier to solve many smaller problems like questions : “How should a laundry basket lool like?” etc. Also, there will be more goodwill for larger differences. The longer one delays with making a decision, the harder it is to make one;
each day passing by, and when you finally decide it gets harder to please the partner and
preserve harmony.
It seems so simple , however, many couples when beginning to live together are experiencing the largest crises in a relationship. It is not only about the couples that are together for a few months ,but also about ones together for four or five years ,sometimes even more ,and have spent countless nights in the other one’s flat. After so much time spent together one would thought that they know each other well and that they would be able to solve any problem or misunderstanding.
What makes a relationship questionable? Especially after a couple start to live together? Is it partly because we start late? We wait till late 20’s or early 30’s to make that step. And that is a part of life when we have already gained certain habits which are hard to change after that. We have learned to cope with problems without any help, and we hardly need anyone to fulfill our life, because it was fulfilled for a long time when we were living alone.
Bachelor’s life makes us less willing to compromise, less willing to risk and try new things. Even if we have finally found the person we think is right for us, lead with bad experiences we rarely open up completely , trying for as long as we can to keep our independence and we hesitate with making a decision about marriage.
Passing from part-time to full-time relationship could be easier for most couples. There is just one rule that they have to observe: THEY MUST NOT WAIT TOO LONG! Because if they do they would be less eager to please their partner and more eager to please themselves and their habits. After a certain time the level of chemicals would leasen and they would be used to each other.
All in all, it would be easier to solve many smaller problems like questions : “How should a laundry basket lool like?” etc. Also, there will be more goodwill for larger differences. The longer one delays with making a decision, the harder it is to make one;
each day passing by, and when you finally decide it gets harder to please the partner and
preserve harmony.